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Tommi-Jai Walsh

Practical, experienced, and person-centered care

LSCSW, LCSW Missouri

Experience
21 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, LGBT, Relationship
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Client-Centered Therapy
Languages
English

About Tommi-Jai

Tommi-Jai Walsh brings 21 years of clinical experience to his work in Missouri, offering a grounded and personable presence for clients seeking practical change. He is licensed as an LSCSW in Kansas (KS LSCSW 2215) and as an LCSW in Missouri (MO LCSW 2001028090).

Background and approach

Drawing from a long career in counseling, he helps clients examine unhelpful thinking patterns, access difficult emotions, and build skills for moving forward. Tommi-Jai's style is low-key and approachable, combining a nonjudgmental stance with an accessible sense of humor.

He has experience with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, relationship and intimacy matters, ADHD, bipolar disorder, parenting and family challenges, and identity-related issues. His practice also attends to less common focuses such as autism and Asperger syndrome, BDSM and kink culture, and complex family dynamics.

He uses evidence-informed methods like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy alongside client-centered and emotion-focused work to help clients gain insight, practice new responses, and plan toward preferred outcomes. Tommi-Jai accepts sessions in English and is available to international clients through online formats.

Approaches in Online Therapy and How They Help



Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns; it is useful for concerns like anxiety, depression, stress, and coping with life changes by teaching practical skills and new ways of responding. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a respectful, empathetic relationship where the therapist supports the client's own process of insight and growth, helping people feel heard while they explore values, emotions, and goals. Dialectical Behavior Therapy blends acceptance with change-oriented strategies and can provide tools for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and improved interpersonal effectiveness.

Choosing the right approach is part of the therapeutic work and is usually collaborative. The therapist discusses options with each client, considers their goals and preferences, and adapts methods as progress unfolds so the plan fits the person's needs and circumstances.

Online sessions are available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, offering flexibility for different schedules and communication styles. These formats make it possible to access licensed professionals from various locations and to continue care during life transitions or when in-person visits are not convenient.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this clinician address?
He works with a wide variety of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting and family challenges, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and other identity-related matters.
What therapeutic styles does he use in sessions?
His approach blends client-centered care with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and elements of emotion-focused work and dialectical strategies to help clients understand thoughts and emotions and develop practical skills.
How much clinical experience does he have?
He has 21 years of counseling experience, which informs a seasoned and adaptable approach to different kinds of challenges and goals.
What are his credentials and where is he licensed?
He holds LSCSW and LCSW credentials with KS LSCSW 2215 and MO LCSW 2001028090, and practices from Missouri.
Can people who live outside the United States work with him?
Yes, he accepts international clients and conducts sessions in English to accommodate people living in other countries.
In what formats are sessions available?
Sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to provide different options for communication and scheduling needs.
How are fees and subscriptions handled?
Costs vary depending on location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin therapy with him?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a session according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepression

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

Autism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameInfidelityJealousyLife purposePolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

21+ years

Licensed

Kansas, Missouri

Languages

English