Rev. Phillip Deming

Compassionate therapist blending practical strategies and empathy

LMFT California

Experience: 25 years in practice
Focus areas: Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Client-Centered Therapy
Languages: English

About Phillip

Rev. Phillip Deming brings a client-centered and cognitive approach to therapy, combining practical strategies with a compassionate presence.

Background and approach

She draws on 25 years of clinical experience as an LMFT to help people navigate stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and family challenges, and issues related to addiction or trauma. Her practice also addresses concerns such as sleep difficulties, self-esteem, bipolar mood concerns, ADHD, compassion fatigue, and caregiving stress.

She creates a welcoming space where thoughts and feelings can be explored without judgment, and she supports clients who wish to include their own spiritual beliefs in therapy while honoring each person’s autonomy. Rev.

Deming has worked with families managing chronic illness and with individuals facing life transitions like divorce, aging, and attachment or abandonment issues. Her background includes approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), mindfulness, narrative, and psychodynamic techniques, which she weaves together to match each client’s goals and preferences.

Based in California, she holds CA LMFT 40942 and offers multiple session formats to fit different needs. Prospective clients are invited to take the first step toward change by completing a short matching process and scheduling according to her availability.

Practical therapeutic approaches for online care

Rev. Phillip Deming often uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help clients identify unhelpful thought patterns and develop concrete skills for managing anxiety, depression, and stress-related symptoms. Client-Centered Therapy is another foundation of her work, focusing on empathic listening and collaboration so clients can explore feelings and priorities at their own pace. She also draws on Dialectical Behavior Therapy techniques when emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal effectiveness are important goals; these skills can be especially useful for navigating intense emotions and relationship conflicts.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process, and she works collaboratively with each client to determine which combination of methods best matches their goals, values, and pace. Together they review progress and adjust techniques as needed so treatment remains responsive and practical.

Online sessions are offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility and accessibility. This range of formats makes it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules, maintain continuity during life transitions, and choose the communication style that feels most comfortable for ongoing work.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Rev. Phillip Deming commonly address?

She works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and family problems, addictions, trauma and abuse, and related issues such as sleep difficulties, parenting challenges, and self-esteem.

What therapeutic style can I expect in sessions?

Her work is grounded in client-centered principles and incorporates practical methods like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and elements of DBT, mindfulness, narrative, and psychodynamic approaches to fit each person’s needs.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She brings 25 years of professional experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist, using that background to support clients through life transitions and chronic stressors.

Where is she licensed and practicing?

She is licensed in California as an LMFT with license number CA LMFT 40942 and maintains a practice serving clients in that state.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English; she is not accepting international clients at this time.

What session formats are offered for online work?

Available formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different preferences and schedules.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with this therapist?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGrief Depression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigue ADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disorders Panic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Sexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

25+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English