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Prof. Vanessa Costello

Collaborative, values-informed counseling with practical tools

LPC Oklahoma

Experience
10 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Self esteem
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Gottman Method
Languages
English

About Vanessa

Prof. Vanessa Costello brings a decade of clinical experience to her practice in Oklahoma.

Background and approach

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with licensure in Arizona and Texas as well, and she draws on a graduate degree in Marriage and Family Therapy to inform her work with clients across the lifespan.

Vanessa combines evidence-informed methods with an understanding of personal values to address concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, anger, career transitions, and compassion fatigue. Her style emphasizes collaboration and respect for each person’s story, encouraging clients to identify strengths and build practical skills that support coping and growth.

Vanessa works with issues that often stem from family of origin, communication challenges, commitment or fertility concerns, isolation or life purpose questions, and the pressures of caregiving or midlife transitions. She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy among other approaches to help clients reframe unhelpful patterns and develop concrete strategies for change while honoring their values and goals.

How evidence-based methods translate to online care

Prof. Vanessa Costello uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help clients identify and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, which can be especially useful for anxiety, depression, and stress. She also integrates Motivational Interviewing to explore readiness for change and strengthen personal motivation when clients face ambivalence about goals or behaviors.

Choosing the right therapeutic approach is a collaborative process. Vanessa works with each person to assess needs, preferences, and goals, and together they decide which methods to emphasize so therapy feels practical and personally meaningful.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, offering flexibility for busy schedules or people in different locations. These formats make it easier to maintain continuity of care, access support from Oklahoma or abroad, and use therapeutic tools and homework assignments between sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist commonly address?
She supports people working with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, self-esteem, career challenges, compassion fatigue, and related concerns such as caregiver stress, fertility issues, and midlife questions.
What therapeutic style can be expected during sessions?
The approach is collaborative and strength-focused, combining practical skill-building with exploration of personal values to help clients develop coping strategies and clear action steps.
How long has the therapist been practicing?
She has 10 years of professional experience working across a range of settings and age groups.
What credentials and locations are on file for this provider?
She is an LPC with licensure details AZ LPC LPC-22536 and TX LPC 93061 and practices out of Oklahoma.
Are sessions available in other languages or to international clients?
Sessions are offered in English and this therapist accepts international clients.
What formats are available for appointments?
Clients can meet via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging according to availability.
How are costs and payment structured?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin working together?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Family conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Caregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMotivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed

Oklahoma, Texas, Arizona

Languages

English