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Holly Lampkin

Compassionate, pragmatic therapy for real-life challenges

LMFT Oklahoma

Experience
7 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Holly

Holly Lampkin is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) practicing in Oklahoma who focuses on helping people navigate stress, anxiety, relationship and family challenges, intimacy concerns, depression, addictions, trauma, grief, and a wide range of related issues.

Background and approach

With seven years of clinical experience, she draws on proven therapeutic methods to support clients working through attachment wounds, body image and self-esteem problems, codependency, communication and commitment struggles, and life transitions.

Her style centers on collaboration and practical skill building, combining cognitive behavioral techniques with acceptance-based practices and client-centered principles to help clients identify unhelpful patterns and try different ways of responding. She also integrates emotionally-focused and Gottman-informed ideas when relationship work is appropriate.

Holly adapts her approach to each person’s needs, emphasizing goal setting, coping strategies, and gradual change rather than quick fixes. Clients can expect sessions that attend to both emotional experience and concrete behavior change, with attention to topics such as BDSM and kink culture, blended family dynamics, aging concerns, dissociation, domestic violence, and other complex presentations.

She provides services in English and practices in Oklahoma as an LMFT (CO LMFT MFT.0002180, OK LMFT 10229).

Evidence-Based Approaches and Online Support



Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors to reduce symptoms like anxiety, depression, and problematic coping patterns. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps clients clarify values, accept difficult thoughts and feelings, and commit to actions that build a meaningful life despite distress. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes a warm, nonjudgmental therapeutic relationship where the therapist provides empathy and support while clients explore their goals and values.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Holly works with clients to determine which methods fit best for their concerns and preferences, adjusting techniques as goals evolve so treatment aligns with individual needs and pacing.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which can make it easier to access regular support without travel. These formats allow clients to receive consistent care, practice skills between sessions, and choose the communication style that feels most comfortable while working with licensed professionals.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Holly frequently address in therapy?
She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family concerns, intimacy issues, depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, eating and body image difficulties, anger, self esteem, and coping with life changes among other topics.
What is her therapeutic style and approach?
Her work blends cognitive behavioral techniques with acceptance and commitment principles and client-centered listening, and she may bring in emotionally-focused or Gottman-informed strategies when relationship work is relevant.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has seven years of professional experience providing therapy and developing practical coping strategies and goals with clients.
What credentials and licensure does she hold and where does she practice?
She is an LMFT and holds licensure listed as CO LMFT MFT.0002180 and OK LMFT 10229, and she practices in Oklahoma.
Does she offer services in languages other than English or accept international clients?
Sessions are offered in English and she is not currently accepting international clients.
In what formats are sessions available?
Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different preferences and schedules.
How are sessions priced and what is the payment structure?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What steps are involved in beginning therapy with her?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to her availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Licensed

Oklahoma, Colorado

Languages

English