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Mary Cabarles

Compassionate clinical social worker guiding practical change

LCSW California

Experience
18 years in practice
Focus areas
Trauma and abuse, Self esteem, Compassion fatigue
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Languages
English

About Mary

Mary Cabarles is a licensed clinical social worker based in California who brings 18 years of practice to people navigating trauma, grief, anxiety, and life transitions.

Background and approach

She draws on a broad background that began early in her social work training and includes roles in group homes, residential care, job coaching, criminal justice settings, and services for people experiencing homelessness, domestic violence, and comorbid disorders.

That range informs an adaptable, practical approach to concerns such as self-esteem, compassion fatigue, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, and caregiver stress. Mary opened a independent practice during the pandemic to respond to rising stress from job and financial changes, caregiving pressures, displacement from wildfires, and other community challenges.

Her work emphasizes attentive listening, collaborative planning, and supporting clients through present-day pressures alongside longstanding interpersonal patterns. She has experience across the lifespan, having worked with children, adolescents, adults, and older adults including hospice populations.

Mary offers more availability on weekends to help clients balance therapy with demanding schedules.

Therapeutic approaches and online care that fit your life



Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps identify and shift unhelpful thinking patterns and related behaviors, often using practical exercises and skill-building to reduce anxiety, manage stress, and address mood or addiction-related concerns. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) emphasizes clarifying personal values and learning to accept difficult emotions while committing to meaningful action, which can be helpful for grief, compassion fatigue, and life transitions. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns in relationships and early bonds, exploring how those dynamics influence current intimacy, communication, and family concerns.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with clients to understand goals, preferences, and life context, then tailor methods or combine techniques that best support stated objectives. That exploration helps ensure therapy remains practical and relevant to each person's needs.

Online sessions are offered via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility and accessibility. These formats make it easier to schedule around work, caregiving, or other obligations and allow clients to continue consistent care from different locations. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises, homework, and check-ins to each format so clients receive focused support in ways that fit their daily routines.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?
She works with a wide range of issues including trauma and abuse, self-esteem, compassion fatigue, stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship and family problems, grief, intimacy-related issues, career changes, and coping with life transitions.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her approach blends client-centered listening with structured methods like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help clients clarify values, change unhelpful thoughts, and build practical coping strategies.
What is her professional background?
She brings 18 years of experience across settings such as group homes, residential facilities, criminal justice work, homelessness services, domestic violence support, and hospice care.
What credentials and location information are on file?
She is an LCSW licensed in California with license number CA LCSW 76807 and practices from California.
Does she offer sessions in other languages or to international clients?
Sessions are provided in English only, and she is not currently accepting international clients.
What session formats are available for online work?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different needs and schedules.
How are fees and payment handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How does someone begin therapy with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling a session according to her availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

18+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English