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Doyle DeGraw

Practical, strengths-based therapy for relational struggles

LMHC, LPC New Jersey

Experience
10 years in practice
Focus areas
Stress, Anxiety, Relationship, Family
Approaches
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Attachment-Based Therapy
Languages
English

About Doyle

Doyle DeGraw is a licensed counselor who focuses on helping people navigate stress, anxiety, relationship and family struggles, parenting concerns, depression, addictions, eating and self-esteem issues.

Background and approach

He brings a decade of clinical experience and a long background in pastoral care to his practice, guiding clients through challenges such as attachment wounds, communication difficulties, control issues, and trauma-related symptoms like panic and post-traumatic stress. He approaches therapy in an integrative, person-centered way that emphasizes strengths and practical tools.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a central method he uses to help clients identify unhelpful patterns and develop concrete strategies for change, while attachment-based work explores family of origin dynamics that often underlie present problems.

Doyle is known for a straightforward, direct communication style and blends challenging and supportive interventions to help clients move past fear, anxiety, guilt, shame, and relational ruptures like infidelity. Licensed in New York and New Jersey, Doyle works with individuals and couples on issues including fatherhood concerns, forgiveness, life purpose, narcissism-related patterns, and ambiguous loss.

He aims to help clients build actionable plans to resolve current struggles and find greater freedom from limiting patterns.

Integrative approaches for online relational care

CBT helps clients identify and change unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns through structured exercises and goal-oriented strategies; it is commonly used for anxiety, mood concerns, addictive behaviors, and problems with eating or self-esteem.

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on the ways early and family relationships shape current feelings and reactions, offering a path to understand triggers, improve emotional connection, and address family of origin issues that contribute to present difficulties.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic work, and the therapist collaborates with each person to determine which methods fit their goals, needs, and preferences. This collaborative process may blend techniques over time as new insights emerge and priorities shift.

Online sessions are offered via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility for scheduling and communication style. These formats make it easier to maintain continuity of care around busy lives, support varied comfort levels with technology and conversation, and provide multiple ways to engage as the therapeutic relationship develops.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this therapist address?
Doyle works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family problems, parenting challenges, depression, addictions, eating and self-esteem issues, as well as related concerns like attachment issues, infidelity, panic, and post-traumatic stress.
How would you describe the therapeutic approach and style?
He uses an integrative, person-centered and strength-based approach that is both supportive and challenging, aiming to provide practical tools and clear plans for change.
What is his clinical and professional background?
He has 10 years of counseling experience and over five decades of pastoral work, bringing both clinical training and long-term pastoral perspective to his practice.
What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?
He holds credentials as an LMHC and an LPC with details NY LMHC 008236 and NJ LPC 37PC01252700 and practices in New Jersey.
In which language can sessions be conducted and are international clients accepted?
Sessions are offered in English, and he is not currently accepting international clients.
What session formats are available for working together?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different communication preferences.
How are costs and payment structured for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin therapy with this clinician?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsEating disordersSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityLife purposeMen's issuesNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Workplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman Method

Experience

10+ years

Licensed

New York, New Jersey

Languages

English